Tanzanian musician Harmonize opened up about his past relationships on Obinna TV Extra, explaining why he won't name a favourite ex and why he's reunited with former partners before.
Tanzanian musician Harmonize has opened up about his past romantic relationships during an appearance on the Obinna TV Extra podcast, addressing questions from host Oga Obinna about his former lovers, whether he has a favourite ex-partner, and why he has occasionally reunited with past girlfriends.
Harmonize has made headlines across East Africa over the years because of his high-profile relationships, including his marriage to Italian model Sarah Michelotti and his public romances with Tanzanian actress Frida Kajala and Jacqueline Wolper.
When Oga Obinna asked him to name a favourite among his exes, Harmonize declined to single out any one woman, explaining that he holds respect for everyone he has previously dated.
"I'm not going to go around the bush, but I respect all of them, but let me say all of them are my favorites," he said.
He explained that discussing former partners publicly on camera can create friction or unnecessary jealousy, especially if those women have since moved on to new relationships. According to Harmonize, praising a former partner in public could unintentionally disrespect another man's current relationship — which is why he prefers to keep details about his exes private.
Harmonize explained that going back to a past partner often comes down to comfort and familiarity, rather than the effort of starting over with someone new.
"Life is very funny, unaweza ukajikuta upo kwenye situation that you never know, so sitaki nimalize maneno," he responded.
He clarified that he isn't afraid of dating new people. Still, he said he leans on his faith to guide his romantic decisions, trusting that the right partner will come into his life at the right time.
"Among the reasons that made me go back to a woman who I have separated with before, ni ile feeling ya kujiuliza tena kuanza upya wakati nimemzoea huyu. Unajikuta kwenye hiyo situation. I'm not saying that I'm going to do that, but that's something that once happened to me," he added.
Asked what contributed to the end of his past relationships, Harmonize admitted he made human mistakes along the way. He said he doesn't blame his former partners and instead treats past relationship challenges as learning experiences.
He closed out the topic by reiterating his respect for every woman who has shared time with him, saying each relationship played a part in shaping who he is today.